Leandie Buys Realtionship Therapist & Clinical Sexologist

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Finding love through forgiveness

If you want to work through the pain of past relationships, the first thing you need to ask yourself is: Do you love yourself?

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What does a sexologist do? And should I see one?

Have you ever wondered what a sexologist does? How do you know if you should see a sexologist? I’ve been a practicing sexologist for almost two decades, so let me share a little bit more about what I do everyday.

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Getting separated or divorced? How to break the news to your children

Remember that just as you and your partner are going through a tumultuous time, your kids are also experiencing a level of chaos. And just because they are children, don’t think that they don’t really understand what’s going on.

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5 Most common reasons marriages fail

Over the years the “not liking each other” can build up, and if issues aren’t resolved, they can smother the love.

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What causes infidelity? Where does it start?

Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship…

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Can a marriage with your affair partner last?

Can an affair lead to a successful marriage? Is it possible for a couple who got together through an affair to build a long-lasting relationship?

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Divorced, single and ready to mingle? 7 Tips for successful dating

“Are all the good guys are taken?”, “Where do you meet decent guys these days?” These are just some of the questions I get asked.

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7 Warning signs that your partner might be having an affair

Do you think your partner is having an affair? Sometimes our intuition tells us that “something is wrong.” We see the red lights flicker, but often we try to protect ourselves by pretending that we are “seeing things”.

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After an Affair

Not only does an affair have a devastating effect on a marriage, but it also affects the emotional, physical and psychological health of everyone involved.

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