Leandie Buys Realtionship Therapist & Clinical Sexologist

Articles - Common sexual health concerns - Women

What to do when your libidos don’t match

There are many different things that could contribute to desire discrepancy. And they are different for every relationship.

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What does a sexologist do? And should I see one?

Have you ever wondered what a sexologist does? How do you know if you should see a sexologist? I’ve been a practicing sexologist for almost two decades, so let me share a little bit more about what I do everyday.

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A woman’s personal account of infertility

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Infertility & Pregnancy Issues

Fertility problems may be caused by problems with either the man or woman in the relationship. However, infertility may also be related to multiple factors involving both partners, or other unexplained causes.

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The keys to great sex: KEY 5 - Self Esteem

In my practice, I have often seen the destructive effect that low self-esteem has, particularly on women. So in this blog on the keys to great sex, I will focus mainly on women and how to address self-esteem issues in your relationship.

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New partner? How to have ‘the sex’ talk

Being prepared, and knowing your partner’s sexual history and expectations, will give peace of mind in the intimate moments. It’s a key ingredient for achieving sexual satisfaction in your relationship.

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Stuck in a rut? Don’t forget about the importance of foreplay

Foreplay is not just about what happens between the sheets. It’s about the relationship as a whole and how connected you and your partner feel.

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How menopause affects your libido

If you feel like perimenopause or menopause has affected your libido, your relationship, and your overall self-esteem, you are not alone. Perimenopause and menopause can affect a woman’s emotional and psychological wellbeing.

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A woman’s real-life struggle with pain during intercourse

This is the story of how one of my clients struggled with vaginismus, how she worked through the pain and reconnected with her husband:

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It hurts when I have sex – Is there something wrong with me?

If you’re a woman who experiences pain during intercourse, and you think there is ‘something wrong with you’, please read on! There is hope, and you are not ‘abnormal’.

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