Leandie Buys Realtionship Therapist & Clinical Sexologist

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Kids happened, what happened to us?

The biggest complaint I hear from new parents is that they feel like their freedom has been taken away. “What happened to ‘us’ time? What happened to spontaneity, romance and our sex life?”

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Sex addiction: Signs, support and recovery

I try to assure all my clients and their families that sex addiction is treatable, and recovery is possible. Like any other addiction, it can be managed with the right tools and therapy.

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My top 10 tips for a long, healthy relationship

As a relationship therapist, I've seen it all. I have seen what heals relationships, what keeps people together, and what tears them apart. Based on almost 20 years’ experience, here are my top ten tips for building a strong relationship that really lasts:

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7 Tips to handle family, kids, and stress during the December holidays

If you’re feeling the holiday pressure, you’re not alone! Here are 7 practical tips to help you enjoy the season and find some moments to reflect on the year that’s gone by.

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4 Things every couple should know to build a strong relationship

As a relationship therapist and clinical sexologist, I help couples understand the natural stages of a relationship. Here are four key things I believe every couple should know to build a stronger relationship.

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What to do when your libidos don’t match

There are many different things that could contribute to desire discrepancy. And they are different for every relationship.

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7 Ways to rekindle the spark in your relationship

As a relationship therapist and clinical sexologist, I have seen it all. And I truly believe that if a couple really wants to rekindle that spark, it IS possible. Even if they have faced challenging times or infidelity.

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Relationship reality-check: Don’t do these 5 things

Rebuilding trust, passion, and intimacy in a relationship starts with honesty—both about who you are and what you want, including your expectations for your partner.

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Top 6 traits to look for in a partner

Never enter a relationship hoping that you can change your partner – it will only lead to unhappiness for both of you. Rather wait patiently for someone who fits your ideal partner 'job description'.

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7 Signs of sex addiction and how it affects relationships

By recognising the signs of sex addiction, seeking professional help, and approaching the journey towards healing with empathy and commitment, there is hope for rebuilding trust, intimacy, and a fulfilling relationship.

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